Politics and Religion – A Toxic Mix

poison-bottle-medicine-old-159296.jpegIn our country, there are two main parties, Democrat and Republican. Most people are a member of one or the other, and may or may not espouse their party’s platform. That is how our country works: we vote, elect an individual, and either two or four years later, we get to decide to re-elect that individual or vote someone else into office.

It’s called politics. It is dirty, messy and sometimes distasteful, but that is how we do things in this country. The problem comes when people decide to mix their political beliefs with their religious ones. There is nothing wrong with joining a political party because you feel their platform lines up with some of your religious beliefs, but the problem lies with associating that particular party with your religion.

Once a person does that, they begin to assume that everyone who believes what they do religiously should belong to their party. Of course, we know that is a fallacy, but if enough people align themselves with a political party because of their religious beliefs, a bloc of voters is formed, and that reinforces the idea that all people of that particular religious persuasion are part of that party.

I have been to different religious meetings, and the person talking about certain policies assumes that everyone in the room believes the way they do and is part of their political party. I have even heard people make the statement that those who are not part of their political party may not even be part of their religious belief system.

Hold on…religion is religion and politics is politics. Let’s not meld our religious beliefs with any political party. If there is an issue that we feel we must align ourselves with a certain party, great, do that, but let’s not expect everyone else’s thoughts and political beliefs to line up neatly with our political persuasion.

One political party may champion life, but the other may champion social issues. Both are important to the well-being of our country and the fabric of our society. Let us never try to pigeonhole people into one or the other party because of our own religious beliefs. It doesn’t work, is totally toxic and only tries to force people to not think for themselves and conform to whatever we think they should believe.

Our National Corporate Grief

pexels-photo-54512.jpegAs citizens of America, we are all partakers in the grief we felt when we heard about the shootings in Las Vegas. We have a shared sense of grief whenever something like this happens in our country. The shared grief is part of what molds us and forms our national identity.

For those of us who grew up in the sixties, that shared grief included the deaths of John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King Jr. and Bobby Kennedy. From the time we became cognizant of national events, we have shared in the tragedies that have affected this nation, including the Challenger incident, 911 and the various mass killings that have happened in the last two decades. It also includes the events that happen when natural disasters hit, such as Andrew, Katrina, Harvey, Irma and Marie.

As a nation, we have endured a lot of grief lately. Our people have suffered untold loss: physically, materially and emotionally since the beginning of September. It is a lot to take in when we see others suffering, and we search for a way to help.

When a natural disaster hits, we can give and support those who have been affected by the disaster. However, when one of these random acts of violence happens, there is not much we can do for those affected when we don’t live close by. Those living near Las Vegas were able to donate blood, give hotel rooms and other basic necessities to those in need. For those of us who did not live close by, we could only pray.

We don’t want senseless acts of violence to affect us, but unfortunately, they become part of our national corporate grief. Just mention the words: Sandy Hook, Fort Lauderdale, San Bernardino or Orlando, and we feel a sense of sadness. We feel pain because of the innocent lives that were lost, even though most of us have no personal connection to them.

Whether we like it or not, we have to process our national corporate grief. I believe it is easier to process than private grief because we do it together as a nation. We talk about it and we process our feelings publicly. Even though we are able to process our grief publicly, we are still not able to understand the event. There is no place in our minds where we can neatly tuck away senseless acts of violence.

Our brains were created to help process our emotions and give us a level of understanding about why things happen the way they do. When senseless violence happens, we search for an answer. Maybe there will be some clue to help us understand why someone would seek to hurt or kill others in such a way.

Unfortunately, many times there is no such answer. Often, the shooter is killed, and we are left wondering how a fellow human being could reach such depths of depravity. We are left unable to comprehend a reason, and we cannot add any level of understanding to our grief.  It is difficult to process grief when there is no understanding,  but we must learn to do it if we are going to be able to process it in a healthy manner.

Are These Really The Last Days?

pexels-photo-735647.jpegLately, I have heard many pastors and teachers say we are living in the last days before the return of Jesus. I don’t like to take anyone’s word for something like that, so I decided to examine the evidence for myself.

First, I went to the Bible and looked primarily at the verses in Matthew 24 and Luke 21 that talk about this time. What do they say the conditions on earth will be like before the coming of Jesus? I decided to list some of them and then come up with my own conclusions.

The first sign in Matthew 24 is that there would be false Christs and they would deceive many. I went on Google and found there are countless people claiming to be the incarnation of Jesus Christ. Some have a few followers, while others seem to be only deceiving themselves. There were others, however,  like Jim Jones, David Koresh and Sun Myung Moon who, among themselves, have deceived countless individuals.

The next sign would be an environment on the earth where there would be “wars and rumors of wars.” Jesus went on to say, “nation would rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom.” The word for nation in the Greek is “ethnos.” In other words ethnic group would be fighting against ethnic group. I have heard enough on the news to know that this sign is taking place.

There would be “famines.” I need only to look at Africa and the people there who have been experiencing famine for years. Some of the famines have been from natural causes, but others are man-made and a form of political genocide on a particular group of people. There are also millions of refugees around the world who are on the brink of starvation because of wars taking place in their countries.

There would be “earthquakes.” In Luke 21, it says “great earthquakes.” Again, I have seen this happening all around the world, but a 2014 NBC news story entitled, “Worldwide Surge in Great Earthquakes in the Last 100 Years” was an interesting read. The USGS also has a list of the strongest earthquakes since 1900. There are a lot of them, and all of them that are 8.0 and above on the Richter Scale and are considered “great earthquakes.”

There would be “pestilences.”  I looked that word up, and it means a disease that normally would kill you. I think of the rise of diseases such as Ebola and AIDS. There are also superbugs that are resistant to medications, and if you get one of them, there is not much the medical community can do for you. Pestilences are here.

Luke 21 also lists “signs in the sun, moon and stars.” I had heard of the four blood moons that occurred on Jewish feast days and the Revelation 12 sign that just occurred in the sky recently. Will there be more? I will have to watch and see.

Jesus also said in Matthew 24 that the gospel would be preached in all of the world and then the end will come. The gospel is being preached on the internet and on television in various countries around the world with the technology of satellites.

Israel would have to be a nation again, as there are several references to Jerusalem and Judea in these passages. Israel became a nation in 1948, so that seems to be lining up with Scripture.

After I thought about all of these things, I decided, “Yes, these could very definitely be the last days. It does seem like we are moving towards the culmination of all things and the return of Jesus Christ.” So what should I do?

I will continue to read Scripture and watch world events so I can be aware of what is happening. I will try to keep my eyes on Jesus in the midst of these unsettled times. And I will pray; for myself to be awake and aware, and for others to look around and see the events happening today in the light of the prophetic passages in the Bible.

Love Your Enemies

sunset-hands-love-woman.jpgOne of the hardest things Jesus ever told his followers was, “Love Your Enemies.” As a believer in Jesus Christ, I have been challenged by this command ever since I first read it. How do we truly love our enemies?

First, we have to decide who our enemies are. On a personal level, our enemies are those people who go out of their way to make life miserable for us. They deliberately try to do us harm, either mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually or socially. They are pretty easy to identify, and I bet if I asked you who your enemies are, you could whip out a list pretty fast.

Next, we have to look at who our enemies are on a broader scale. They may be the leaders of a country who are threatening to annihilate us or those who are working against our national interests in the international arena. The people in those countries may not actually be our enemies but are people at the mercy of those in control of the government of their countries.

Then we have to look at who are not our enemies. Sometimes this takes rethinking the word “enemy.” Our teachers are not our enemy if they do not give us the grade we think we deserve in class. Our boss is not our enemy if he doesn’t give us the raise we think we are entitled to. Our parents are not our enemies if they don’t let us do everything we want to do. The judge is not our enemy if he gives us a fine for speeding. Anyone who holds us accountable for our actions or performance is not our enemy.

People of another political persuasion are not our enemies. They may not agree with our opinions and we may not agree with theirs, but that does not make them our enemy. They are mutual citizens of a country that needs differing political views in order to serve the common good. We need to resist the constant media barrage that seeks to pit those with one political view against another.

People of another religious persuasion are not our enemies. Believing something different than what we do does not constitute grounds to classify someone as an enemy. There may be people on the fringe of a religious group that truly seek to harm us, but the group as a whole is not our enemy.

Once we identify who and who are not our enemies, how do we treat them? How do we actually love them? Jesus continued on and said, “Bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.” That sounds like a pretty tall order to me, and it will take a major change in our present mindset in order to accomplish it.

Let’s break it down: “Bless those who curse you.” How do we do that? First, we do not curse them back, i.e., if they are swearing at us, we do not return fire with expletives. It takes practice, but when someone is going on a rant, we walk away. If we can, we say something positive to them or at least something that will help to diffuse the situation. We do not call them names, even under our breath. When these people are not on a rant, we may say something positive or uplifting to them.

He then said, “Do good to those who hate you.” This is not easy stuff to swallow, let alone digest. We have to choose to do good to someone who has not had our best interests at heart. This may entail treating with kindness the shrew in the break room who is always gossiping about us or our friends. It may mean helping out a person who has been unkind to us in their time of need. Nothing speaks louder than when we purposely act kindly towards those who have not treated us well and do not deserve our kindness.

Finally, he said, “Pray for those who despitefully use you and persecute you.” This is actually the key that will open our hearts and help us extend kindness to those who have been unkind to us. If we spend time in prayer for those who have offended us, we will find our attitudes changing. When we ask for good things for them, the bad feelings we have inside begin to disappear. We begin to see them as the flawed people they are, and we quit giving them power over our lives. When we want what is good and best for them, we will behave in a different manner towards them. Perhaps then we can even do what Jesus said. One day, we may even be able to love them.

Which Is The Greater Miracle?

pexels-photo-263337.jpegRecently, my cousin received a kidney transplant. His kidneys had not functioned well for years, but he finally came to the point where he needed dialysis. He sent a letter out letting people know he needed a kidney, and many people volunteered to be a donor. Unfortunately, everyone was rejected for one reason or another. Finally, he transferred to another transplant center, and they began the process of reassessing his potential donors. After a while, a new doctor thought he had found the right match. It was my cousin’s wife who had been the first donor on the list, but had been rejected because of her allergies. Within a month, they were both in the hospital awaiting surgery. Both surgeries went well, and they were both out of the hospital within a week.

I had prayed for my cousin for years, first to be healed by God of his kidney disease and then to find a donor who would be a match. I was hoping for an instant miracle, one where God just touched him and his kidneys were healed. Instead, he received a different kind of miracle, the kind where God used frail human beings to enact his will and bring healing through the medical process.

So I had to ask myself, “Which is the greater miracle?” An instant healing performed with God’s dunamis power, or one where He brought a new doctor to a new transplant center who was willing to accept a donor that had been previously rejected?  Both are miracles, but we stand amazed that when it seemed there was no answer, God brought one by human means.

I’ve come to the conclusion that however God works to provide an answer to prayer fits in the realm of the miraculous. Using a human to meet a need may not seem as spectacular as a miraculous healing, but the person used by God is as big a miracle as God showing up Himself to meet the need.

Love Hates

man-couple-people-woman.jpgWhen we think about love, we don’t usually associate the word with hate. But real love, true love, agape love, it hates…people, no, but the wrongs of this world, yes. Here are some things that love hates:

Love Hates Injustice…and seeks to right wrongs.

Love Hates Racism…and seeks to bring equality.

Love Hates Hunger…and seeks to alleviate it.

Love Hates Disease…and seeks to heal it.

Love Hates Lies…and seeks to bring truth.

Love Hates Human Trafficking…and seeks to stop it.

Love Hates Pornography…and seeks to bring value to human sexuality.

Love Hates Death…and seeks to promote life.

Love Hates Violence…and seeks to bring reconciliation.

Love Hates War…and seeks to promote peace.

And all the people working in those areas to make a better world, whether they know it or not, are working on behalf of love’s purpose.

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness for they shall be filled.” Matthew 5:6 (NKJV)

Just For Today People

hands-walking-stick-elderly-old-person.jpgThe book of James tells us that our lives are like “a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.” When I read those words in my twenties and thirties, I understood them but they didn’t speak to me as strongly as they do thirty years later. Now, looking back on my life, it does seem like a vapor that has come and can be gone very quickly.

There are many people like me, people who are at an age that they know every day could be their last day. Although there are never any guarantees, just the sheer number of our years lets us know that we are living in the last days of our last years.

With this in mind, a person tends to live a more deliberate life and wants every day to count in a more positive way. These people, like myself, are “Just For Today People.” Here are a few thoughts that might help us “Just for Today People” live in a more meaningful way:

Just for Today, I will love my neighbor as myself. I will not be jealous of what he has or what he does and I will be content with what I have and what I can do.

Just for Today, I will try to make a difference in someone’s life. I will speak in a more positive tone and extend kindness to those I meet.

Just for Today, I will care about others who live in a different state or country. I will be interested in the problems they are experiencing and if I can, I will do something about them. If I cannot give, I can still pray for them to experience relief.

Just for Today, I will learn something new. I will focus my mind beyond my own sphere of influence.

Just for Today, I will promote peace. I will not be drawn into negative conversations that only cause division and harm others.

Just for Today, I will seek to be the person God created me to be and not be a lesser version of myself.

And finally, Just for Today, I will look up and expect good things from my Creator. I will enjoy what He has placed around me and will look with wonder on His creation.

 

 

 

 

 

Love Your Neighbor

pexels-photo-810036.jpegJesus was talking to a lawyer about the two most important commandments. When they got to the second one: “Love your neighbor as yourself,” the lawyer, wanting to justify himself said, “Who is my neighbor?” He was probably hoping that Jesus would say, “The guy who lives next to you,  you know, the one who is so similar to you that you can easily identify with him.”

But that is not what Jesus said. He told him a story about a man who had been mugged. Two religious people from the man’s own neck of the woods walked right by him; they couldn’t be bothered with helping him. Another man, one from a race hated by his culture, came to his aid. He took care of his wounds and made provision for him while he was recovering.

With this story in mind, we have to ask ourselves: “Who is my neighbor?” Of course, it is the person living within shouting distance, but it is also the person living all the way across town in a completely different neighborhood. It is the man on the street corner asking for a handout. It is the person we meet in a store who is experiencing some kind of difficulty.

Any time God puts someone in our path who needs help and we can meet that need, they are our neighbor. They may not look like our neighbor, i.e., their skin color may be different, they may have trouble expressing themselves in our language, they may even live a completely different lifestyle than we do. It doesn’t matter, they are our neighbor.

Let’s ask God to open our hearts and soften them to be sensitive to those he is putting in our path who may need help.  Sometimes the need is invisible; the people look absolutely fine, but there is a hidden need inside of them. They are desperate for a kind word and a connection to another human being, and we can meet that need by taking the time to talk to that person and lend an ear.

Who is our neighbor? He is someone that God has put in front of us today with a need. He wants us to stop and meet that need. It will not only change their lives for the better but it will change ours for the better.

“Lord, make it easy.”

pexels-photo-256894.jpegI have a friend who is faced with a difficult life choice. She needs to make a decision, but has been fighting it. She is making it difficult for herself and for her family. I would love to see her make the decision and move on with her life. As I was praying for her the other evening, I said, “Lord, make it easy for her.”

Almost immediately, another thought came into my mind, “No, it must be hard.” So I thought about that for a while. Yes, that is right. If things are not difficult, many times we will not make the decisions we need to make.

We lived in a town for decades and had a lot of friends and a good life. My husband would not consider moving closer to our kids until he had some medical issues and our lives became difficult. Now we are close to our children and are right where we need to be as we get older.

Same thing for another friend I have. Her husband did not want to move until his job became untenable. Now they have returned home after a few decades away from friends and family. They are in just the right place and will be able to use their gifts and talents in a new way around people they know and love.

So, apparently, difficult times can be our friends if they motivate us to do things we would not otherwise consider. When we are comfortable with our lives, we seldom change and take risks, even the ones we should be taking.

As I look back over my life, I see difficulties from a different perspective. They have been motivators for change, and most of that change has been for the better. The changes have caused me to meet new people, try new jobs, and experience life in a way I would not have otherwise done. And now,  I am learning to thank the Lord for both the good and the hard things that have come my way.

Where are the Martin Luther Kings and the Bobby Kennedys of this Generation?

Having grown up in the sixties, I was privileged to watch and listen to great men like Martin Luther King Jr. and Bobby Kennedy. Martin Luther King Jr. had the vision and the voice to inspire a generation of people to not accept the villainy of segregation. Bobby Kennedy had the same vision and with his position as Attorney General was able to help enforce the law and not allow segregation any longer.

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Martin Luther King Jr. spoke to us and taught us the power of passive resistance. He never advocated violence and he never tried to incite us to hatred or violence in any form. He was a man whose vision made us all better people and he inspired change for the millions of people who would come after him.

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Bobby Kennedy had the ability and the power of the Federal government to implement that change. He believed it was the right thing to do, and he brought the full force of the law to bear to implement it.

Today, there are many worthy causes that I would love to lend my voice to, but I can’t. Their leaders inspire hatred and violence, and instead of bringing people together, they are tearing apart the fabric of our society.

Does anyone miss the kind of leaders that Martin and Bobby were? I certainly do, and I am looking for men and women like them, people of high caliber and vision, who can bring us together and help solve the problems we face in our society today.