
About a month before Thanksgiving, my husband and I bought a puzzle from the local library. It was a used 500-piece puzzle, and we decided to put it together over Thanksgiving week. True to form, my husband (the expert), separated all of the pieces by color and put the edges together. He then began to work on the center. Myself (the novice), took all of it in and waited for it to resemble the picture on the box. As I walked by, I would occasionally pick up a piece and set it in place. The funny thing about this puzzle though, several pieces were cut in the exact same shape. You had to choose the one that best fit the picture. On and on we went until there was just a small hole in the upper right of the puzzle. There were about fifteen pieces left, and neither he nor I could make the last pieces fit. I blamed it on the puzzle (of course, it could not be user error), and when neither of us could finish it, I boxed it up and threw it into the garbage…and good riddance. It was frustrating to not finish the puzzle. I didn’t like having left it undone, but there was nothing we could do about it. The picture of it stayed in my mind for a long time. It reminded me of an unfinished life.
How many times have people passed, especially when they are younger, and we feel that they left an unfinished life. “If only,” we think, “They could have done so much more.” I remember those who passed in Junior High and High School, and I feel that sentiment when I think of them. I know that I am not the only one who feels this way.
So what is an unfinished life? We all have our own definition but primarily it is a life that was not able to experience the usual milestones we pass as time goes on. If the person is talented and gifted, we think of all the good they could have done in the world. I remember thinking that of a few doctors I knew who passed relatively early. Oh, how the world would miss them, and I was right. They left a hole in our small community when they were gone.
After I became a believer in Jesus Christ, I thought that way about Him for several years. Why did He have to die at the age of 33? Think of all the people he could have healed, raised from the dead, and the many demons he could have cast out. It was only later that I realized His life was not unfinished. He accomplished what He came to earth to do. He laid down His life as a payment for the sins of the world. His life fulfilled everything it was meant to.
So the question becomes, how do we live so that when we leave we haven’t left an unfinished life? Do we need to have all of our projects done at work? What about things that need to be done around the house? Is it about dotting every i and crossing every t on our list of things to do? I don’t think so.
No matter when we are called to go, there will always be something left undone…a bed unmade, a project not signed off, or that right person not hired. But those things can be remedied by others. There are things that we do not want to leave unfinished, things that only we can do. Have we called our relative that we need to reconcile with? Have we forgiven someone who hurt us? Have we reached out to the hurting in our community in a way that will make a significant difference, or have we only lived for ourselves?
As we approach the beginning of another year, let’s make an effort to not leave the important things unfinished. As we take our last breath on this earth and wake up in the rarified atmosphere of eternity, let us make sure we have not left the most important thing unfinished: that of our relationship with the Lord. If nothing else, let’s get that right before we pass. If you haven’t taken care of it, don’t let another day go by before you do. You never know when it will be your time to leave this world, and you don’t want to live in eternity regretting that you left it unfinished in this life.
“And as it is appointed for men to die once, but after this the judgment, so Christ was offered once to bear the sins of many.” Hebrews 9:27
You make excellent points on the way we are to live while here. But do you really believe in the perfection of Heaven there will be regrets? 🙂
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I do think there will be regrets from people who have not come to the Lord and they will not be able to change their eternal destiny.
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Oh definitely that, but I am hopeful for no regrets in Heaven. I suppose we must each try and resolve our unfinished-ness in a timely manner.
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I would imagine that we will all have regrets at the Judgment Seat of Christ. We have all probably placed to much emphasis on this life and not enough on the one to come. We will all probably realize the opportunities we missed and regret we have not done more for the Lord. At some point, I believe our memories of earth will be taken from us and we will not remember those we love so much who rejected Christ.
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Thank you so much!
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Wonderful year end reflection and perfect metaphor, Valerie. Thanks
Wishing you and your family a most blessed Christmas season and 2024.
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You make such a good point about not leaving important things unfinished.
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Thank you!
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Hi Valerie, how are you doing? Wishing you and your family blessed Christmas season. Happy weekend ❤️.
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Doing well. Hubby is better after his second stroke. We are making progress. God is good! Hope you and your family has a blessed Christmas season also!💖
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That’s good to hear, thank you. You too have a great one. Take care ❤️.
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Valerie this is a really good post that makes an excellent point.
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Great advice! How frustrating about that puzzle !
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You know it!!!!
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Nicely done! As I get older I don’t have the tolerance level for doing puzzles like that anymore. Your husband’s perseverance is amazing!
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Yes, it is! I, for one, do not have the patience. That’s why he is the expert. I don’t mind throwing a piece in here or there but not the whole thing….and separating the pieces…whew!
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And getting it from the library. Do they count the pieces when it is returned to make sure they have them all so you know you will have a complete picture? Whew is right!
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A very relevant life example with scriptural add. Blessings always and into another new year.
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Thank you so much! Blessings to you also as we go into another New Year….fraught with??? Let us stay close to the Lord.
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