I first saw Gloria when I was in the second grade. She was a small fragile child with light blonde hair. Her skin was so translucent, you could see the blue veins in her face. She was partially deaf and had a large hearing aid attached to her head behind her ear. When she spoke, she was hard to understand as she did not enunciate her words like the other children. Because she was so delicate, she did not participate in games during recess.
I felt bad for Gloria but didn’t know how to express my feelings. One day when I walked into the girl’s restroom, she was at the sink washing her hands. She shyly smiled at me and I returned the smile. I watched her reach for the paper towels with difficulty. Her plight touched my heart. At six years old, I didn’t know what to say to her. When she left the restroom, I went into the stall and started crying. She was a delicate child, a special child with lots of problems, that struggled with even the most basic tasks. Gloria was only in my class for a few more weeks. I don’t know if she moved or was placed in a different class because I never saw her again. I do know that I will never forget her and that I owe her a debt of gratitude for opening a well of compassion inside of me.
When I think about her, I think about her name. Gloria’s name is from the Latin meaning glory or glorious. Some see the glory of God in a star athlete who can run fast or climb a high mountain. When I look at an athlete with those kinds of accomplishments, I see the glory of man. Conversely, when I look at a child with a disability, I see the glory of God. He is the One that gives that special child the strength to struggle through each day and night. He gives the child joy and thankfulness for the simple accomplishments we all take for granted.
Gloria, wherever you are, you changed my life and I will always be grateful to you.
“And the King will answer and say to them, Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.” Matthew 25:40.
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I for one am praying that Gloria reads this! Thank you sharing Valerie. Blessings!
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Blessings to you too, Bruce!
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Wouldn’t it be wonderful if she did!
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Yes, if only……
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Wow, this is so touching. I love your distinction between man’s glory in his/her accomplishments and God’s glory in someone’s life. This story will stick with me. Thank you.
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So glad it touched your heart! Mine was forever changed by my encounter with her! Blessings to you!
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And to you!
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Valerie I can relate to your feelings completely. After retiring in August from working with adults with disabilities they changed my life. I had 2 clients with cerebral palsy and their struggles didn’t even phase them! They taught me so much about life!
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They are precious and SO courageous!
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Clearly one of those “chance encounters” that is anything but chance. Thank you for extending a little of the blessing to us, Valerie. Praying for Gloria and those she touched.
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Yes, she was a walking miracle! ❤
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What a gift to feel compassion and love for the weak and vulnerable. You had God’s love from a young age.
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Amen dear friend. So many Gloria’s in my life as well. Now I call them God’s little ones or God’s chosen ones. They are the pure of heart. We have so much to learn from them.
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Yes, we do! Courage, strength, joy and thankfulness! ❤
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We encounter angels all the time – and sometimes we are the angels to others!!
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Yes, we do and you are so right! ❤
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The human spirit is one of ability, perseverance and courage that no disability can steal away. ~~ Anonymous
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This is beautifully said. Let’s hope that wherever she is she is happy.
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Yes, let’s do! ❤
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Valerie, this post brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt memory and how the Lord used another child’s struggles to touch your little 6 year old heart. May all our hearts be melted in compassion for one another, like a child. Bless you! And may God bless Gloria!
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So thankful for your input! Yes, may we all be like children…they have a pure heart, don’t they?
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matthew 50:15 let everything that has breath praise the lord
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That is the last verse in the book of Psalms: Psalm 150:6!
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Beautiful & poignant!
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So glad it spoke to you!
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HOW COULD WE LIVE WITHOUT ANGELS? A GREAT POST VALERY, CHINA
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So true! Thanks for stopping by and for the follow!
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WE NEVER KNOW WHOM WE HAVE INSPIRED…OR THOSE WE MEET WHO WILL INSPIRE US!
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Thank you so much for the reblog!
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You bless us SO MUCH!
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So heartfelt! ❤️❤️❤️🙏
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Yes, thank you! ❤
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